What Is "Quarreling Day" for Family?

Recently, one post became popular among the net-pals and aroused intense discussion with its title of "Quarrelling Day established by post 80s--- to convey the grievance all at once and avoid quarreling all the time". Mr. Li, the poster also enclosed his reflection after his personal experience.

Li said that it has been more than three years since he got married with his wife Mrs Yan. Since both of the two are extrovert and ill-tempered with strong self-esteem, those factors always contributed to quarreling them on the trifles.

We had a quarrel in the face of a 2-year-old baby and it scared him. From then on, we were determined to ponder the quarreling issue. As for the establishment of "Quarreling Day", Li confessed that they are afraid of quarreling, in fear of scaring child; they then decided to set up the 'Quarreling Day' after discussion.

When it comes to "Quarreling Day", the two will pour out all the opinion during the whole week. "The two gradually began to have a discussion, the quarreling in the past turned into persuasion", said Mr. Li.

That's a good way and good idea. it is almost impossible to find out even one family where there aren't any quarreling between the couple. The rather that, who can ensure that you may control your temple anytime until a certain one day once a month? Even a prisoner you can't force him in this way. So you may make a conclusion, that the regular argument is the imperative fraction of the family's life. You may understand what i am saying if you can imagine the quiet situation that a family the members of them never argue with each other. in any case, i like to quarrel occasionally with my honey, even though often the causes are really not important, but we both need the  argument. Now, I'd like to be an advertise man to say, "come on, men and women, let's go to quarrel each other, the argument is very good for your health.

Since the quarrel is inevitable, what shall we do? I think there are two ways to resolve it. One is quarrel at any time when there is different idea between the couple and the other is setup a "quarrelling day" when the couple could quarrel about all the different ideas accumulated within the week. In my opinion, the latter is better. We know that the quarrel springs up all because of failing to control one's mood. By setting a quarrelling day, we can control our moods consciously, so the quarrel would probably become discussing and even conversation.

I always said that we love each other indeed but just on different way. Therefore, today I should say it's a good way for us to suspend our quarrel. We are holding an abundance of knowledge to completely understand the real mean for "quarreling day".